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Only “Real” Women Count

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Self-control is a virtue. And I am trying really hard to exert that virtue as much as possible in my response to the complete nonsense spouted by DNC adviser and strategist Hilary Rosen.

In a pathetic effort to discredit Mitt Romney and continue the liberals’ recent “war on women” cry, Rosen decided to attack Romney’s wife Ann. In an interview with Anderson Cooper on CNN, Rosen said, “Guess what, his wife has actually never worked a day in her life.”

Of course, she only stayed at home to raise five kids!

As the mother of two, I have to admit that my immediate reaction to hearing this was to have the veins in my forehead almost pop. But after a moment, I had to remember that this type of attitude is nothing new among liberals – especially among those who claim to speak for women.

The reality is that for liberals only “real” women count. You know, those who believe in having a “choice” on abortion and put career first, instead of the “enslavement” of staying at home to raise a family. In essence, those who believe like liberals do are the “real” women; those “others” out there somewhere on a farm are still living in the 1950s.

As the President and Chief Executive Officer of Concerned Women for America (CWA), I represent these “other” women. CWA is the nation’s largest public policy women’s organization with over half-a-million members around the country, and a lot of them are stay-at-home moms who work – and work hard! – for their families to thrive.

These moms have more positive impact on our culture than any government entity or program could ever dream of having. It is in them that the answers to many of our societal ills lie.

But liberals, especially liberal women who self-proclaim themselves as the “voice” of American women, believe that no one should listen to these other, lesser beings. Isn’t that what Miss Rosen’s comment really says? “Mitt Romney shouldn’t be listening to his wife; she doesn’t even work.”


This is why they don’t believe these “other” women should be listened to when the “others” say that because of their religious beliefs, they don’t want the government forcing them to pay for other women’s contraception.

Apparently Rosen’s way of making the remarks “better” was to clarify that Romney should not listen to her on “economic” issues. Right, because running a household has nothing to do with economic issues. She wrote on her Twitter account:

When I said [on Anderson Cooper] Ann Romney never worked I meant she never had to care for her kids AND earn a paycheck like MOST American women!

Words cannot describe how sorry I feel for this woman. The most amazing thing about moms is that they do so much without getting a paycheck. I only wish that Rosen and others like her would stop and consider that. Stay-at-home moms are to be considered more, not less.

I stayed at home for several years while my children where young, and I can tell you that there is not a more practical place where Washington could look to discover the tangible impact their theoretical economic proposals have than the American family. A great number of moms run the budget in the house; they pay bills, give to charity, buy groceries, etc.

Talk about energy policy; these women see the effects every day of desperately trying to manage paying almost four dollars a gallon for gas at the pump. They make tough choices so they can live within their families’ budget every month, something this administration is clearly unable to do. Stay-at-home moms are also experts in the areas of education, nutrition, and a host of other issues.

Americans would be wise to remember this as they get ready to go the polls and vote. The issue is much bigger than a simple statement. The statement is a representation of a worldview (shared by our president, I might add) that defines women and “women’s issues” in an authoritarian way and purposely ignores anything or anyone who would dare challenge their assumptions.

It puzzles me how liberals do not get how important stay-at-home moms are to our nation? Haven’t they heard the saying, “The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world”? And in this case, it swings elections.